Media personality Janet Mbugua has questioned the focus of gospel singer Mercy Masika’s upcoming marriage masterclass, arguing that conversations about relationships should also address the wider challenges facing women and children in Kenya.
Mbugua weighed in after Masika announced Becoming a Wife, a programme designed to guide women seeking to build marriages according to Christian teachings.
In a video shared on social media, Mbugua questioned why marriage education initiatives frequently place emphasis on women learning how to become better wives, while similar attention is not given to men’s responsibilities as husbands.
She also pointed to concerns about femicide, sexual violence and the safety of children, arguing that religious institutions and influential public figures should use their platforms to address such issues.
Mbugua further challenged teachings that encourage women to endure difficult marriages without adequately considering their safety, wellbeing or access to support.
She maintained that sustaining a marriage requires commitment from both partners and questioned why women are often expected to carry the responsibility for making relationships work.
Her comments drew responses from Kenyans who agreed that marriage education should address both partners’ roles, while others defended Masika’s right to organise a faith-based programme for women who want that guidance.
Media personality Mashirima Kapombe was among those who defended Masika, arguing that women should not be criticised for pursuing initiatives that reflect their beliefs simply because others disagree with them.
The exchange has fuelled a wider online discussion about marriage, gender expectations, faith and the role of religious institutions in responding to social concerns affecting Kenyan communities.




